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03-01-2010, 11:40 AM
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Sr. Hush Sisuth
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okkkk so we're not married...
but you gotta choose....your sister stays or I gotta go!!..ain't mad at cha if you choose your sister...
Damn!!!!....moving twice in 15 years ain't my cup of tea!!!...ugghhhhh 
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03-01-2010, 01:34 PM
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~ BouGhetto Princess ~
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Re: okkkk so we're not married...
I am not really following but I think its about to be Three's Company in casa de Chey?
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03-01-2010, 04:25 PM
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Sr. Hush Sisuth
Join Date: Sep 2001
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can a sistuh..just get peace!!! is that too much to ask???
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Originally Posted by Brightness
I am not really following but I think its about to be Three's Company in casa de Chey?
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Follow me Brite...for I'm getting ready to spill it!!! 
okkkkk so this heffa (his sister)..has been in and out of the house since Thanksgiving...
A little history...all these Mofo's (s/o bother & sister)...got some drinking ills.....brother has had liver transplant..and s/o gave him a kidney... sister has left hubby..while she recoups from her liver transplant, was in Hawaii for 2 months recouping, been back to Cali since Thanksgiving, not wanting to get back w/ hubby so big brother says yes..you can stay with us....I'm like... What???...hold up pardna!!..he says she won't stay long....our life styles..is too plain too poor for her (Housewive of OC / Black Hawk gated life) and hubby won't give up the $$$..so she'll go back...well he was partially correct...except..she still has a key..and she pops in..when she fights w/ hubby or mad at her teenage children...  ....well the straw broke the camel back when this heffa popped in during my grieving and bronchitis bout..I'm on the sofa..and she sasshays through looking for her brother..and demanding answers.....my only words...He's not here..and you're blocking the TV..move.. thank you...she leaves in a huff!!..lol,lol now mind you this happen 1 maybe 2 weeks ago.....so s/o decides to ask me about it???..and I blew.....my brother and sister died within a year of each other...and you drunk mofo's getting liver transplants like they're on special...and then I'm suppose to tip-toe..because she's your baby sister....fff-that!!..I feel about alcoholics the same way I do about druggies...amerikkka classified both as illness...and they get more sympathy and help..than a homeless child fighting for their life...
Okkkkkk Brite...I've vented thank you !!
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03-02-2010, 03:05 AM
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~ BouGhetto Princess ~
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Re: okkkk so we're not married...
Man, things are tough all over.....
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03-02-2010, 04:17 AM
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Sr. Hush Sisuth
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I know, I know...it's not an impossible feat...
and you're right things are tough and folks are having a rough time.....I just need to face the facts...and maybe move on... I just hate moving..and she's crapping my style...or maybe I needed an excuse to get out of here!!
thanks for listening
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Man, things are tough all over.....
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03-02-2010, 05:08 AM
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~ BouGhetto Princess ~
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Re: okkkk so we're not married...
Not invalidating your feelings by any means these are the kind of things that occur when 'blending' lives.... You double your misery or pleasure, something gives to get.
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03-02-2010, 08:53 AM
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ALL HUSH TEAM
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Re: okkkk so we're not married...
Chey I think he needs to talk to his sister. If she came looking for him, then there was no reason for her to be upset at you when he wasn't there.
I mean it's not like she wanted to visit with you and you are not his secretary or answering service...so you owe her nothing.
She should have knocked and waited for you to answer. Then the proper thing to say was "Hello Chey, how are you. Sorry for your loss. How are you feeling? I won't bother you since he's not home. Just tell him I stopped by."
She acts like it's not your home too.
You don't need a marriage license for a place to be your HOME and for people to respect that.
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03-02-2010, 10:05 AM
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Ignercy!
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Re: okkkk so we're not married...
Rant and Rave show this week on HUSH RADIO, we can discuss it there. :-)
Holla
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03-07-2010, 10:43 AM
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Whooping SallieMae's ass!
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Re: okkkk so we're not married...
It's up to him to check her and let her know what is what. If he will not do that, it tells you all you need to know about him and your relationship with him.
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03-09-2010, 06:45 AM
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H.H.I.C.
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Re: okkkk so we're not married...
I agree with Misha.
If family members get out of line, I'm of the opinion that you should let your significant other handle them rather than address the situation on your own at first.
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03-09-2010, 10:33 AM
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Sr. Hush Sisuth
Join Date: Sep 2001
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hellllllooooooo....and that's the problem...
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Originally Posted by Tastey
She acts like it's not your home too.
You don't need a marriage license for a place to be your HOME and for people to respect that.
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I'm pretty sure...I'll be outty...by the fall...I'll take my time...make some decisions..on where, who, and when...and then split...I asked him to get back the key from his sister, for I don't like her popping in....
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